We as people do not have the ability to control anyone’s decisions and choices but our own. This reality can bring disappointment and our job is to guard our heart so the disappointment does not become resentment or bitterness. Having friends who are wise is a key to walking through disappointment well.
I was on the phone with a friend moments ago and she she spoke such wisdom to me. I call her a conversational prophet, because she speaks words of life in such a conversational way, that it literally adds value in ways I cannot explain. Her name is Kari Wandrey and she called me this morning and spoke words I will never forget.
I share this with you today, because her words will bless you as they blessed me and I could not help but share them with you today. Here is what she said, “Repentance is just changing your allegiance.” She doesn’t remember who shared this with her, but when she said these words they carried authority.
My job is to keep my allegiance to the Lord correct, and when my allegiance shifts, I need to repent in order to restore allegiance to the Lord. We cannot repent for anyone else, which is why when we see their allegiance shifting we cannot control that for everyone has a free will. Selah.
Next she said, “If we try to be the healing in another persons life, it will leave a scar, but if we let the Lord be the healer in their life there will be no scar.” What!!! Drop the mic!!! She then said, this is a new way of walking for us, but it will be what others and we need. Selah.
Finally, she said, “Don’t put a bandaid on what God wants to put oxygen on.” How often do we want to cover up the wound, rather than expose it to the air that can heal it. God has words of life, breath and spirit that can heal when exposed to His breath. Selah.
I hope you have friends like this in your life, for the words she spoke were life, healing and much needed adjustment to what I was saying to her. I am blessed to have this woman on my team of friends. I hope her words heal you like they healed and helped me this morning. Thank you Kari, I am forever grateful for you. Www.apostolicresourcecenter.org










